Our caller was a 34 years old Bachelor Engineer from U.P. He had called up helpline to find out information on HIV/AIDs since he had been visiting CSW (commercial sex workers) very often.
Our Counsellor explained to him about the necessity of using Condoms in all kind of sexual activities, including oral sex to get protected from HIV.
He had a major doubt since he was getting boils and fungus infection in his mouth. Counsellor had to go in depth to find out the cause for the same. Caller informed that he had a vaginal oral sex with one of the CSW after which he developed this infection. He had been advised to go for a HIV test after three months of the exposure, at the same he was also advised to consult a doctor for STD (sexually transmitted Disease).
Counsellor advised him to avoid having sex with many partners to avoid any risk in his life and explained the disadvantages of HIV/AIDs infection and how it can affect his marriage, family and future generation. However, he informed that he cannot control his sexual urge for which counsellor advised he can have masturbation which is a safe method and also informed him that for mental diversion, he could occupy himself with office work, yoga, meditation and some computer games.
Still, the caller was not much convinced and informed that he cannot remain without indulging in sex, for which counsellor advised him to use condoms for safety.
Now at this point of time, he has loss of appetite, and STD kind of problem hence, he is quite worried about his HIV/STD status for which he has agreed to go for a medical test and informed the counsellor that he will call back the helpline when he gets his report.
Samvad wish him all the very best....at the same time, we wonder why one should not get married at an early age and happily live with the partner instead of going through this kind of fear and mental agony.
Any one can all on our helpline No.0612 2575757